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4 Dating App "Do's" That Will Get You To "I Do!"

There are a lot of tips and tricks to dating app success; ways to play the algorithm, get the most matches, go on the most dates, etc....

3 Things You Should NOT Tell A First Date

When Total Honesty is Totally TMI We all know honesty is the best policy right? But when it comes to a first date, less is actually more....

The Phantom Ex

And How It's A Form Of Gaslighting At some point in our dating journey we have all heard these three little words..."My Crazy Ex." The...

Row Your Own Canoe: Navigating Dating From a Place of Self Sufficiency

Row Your Own Canoe Sometimes we feel like we can’t live with them but we can’t live without them. But the truth is, sometimes we have...

The Myth of The "Cool Girl" and Why It Is Hurting Us

Why Millennial Women Are Feeling the Pressure Blogging from Your Wix Blog Dashboard The Myth of the “Cool Girl”: And Why It Is Hurting...

50 Dates of Gray: Finding Compassion In Our Dating Lives

Finding Compassion In Our Dating Lives Fifty Dates Of Gray We tend to make dating very black and white. We had a bad date, so now that is...

Dating 101 Presents: First Date Red Flags

How To Tell If Your Date is One for the History Books, or One For The Apologies I Never Got Book. First Date Red Flags Due to recent...